Wednesday, 12 May 2021

Dealing with unforgiving, bitterness, pain of the past and anger part 1

 The first thing I noticed about society is that they are dealing with many internal battles caused by the pain of the past.

This can be caused by a family, love relationship, and workplace. The reason for this is that as people we meet with different kinds of people who can either build us or destroy us but in most cases, people meet people who destroyed them. Because of jealousy, envy, and trust issues. You are about to get promoted, or you get high marks at university then your colleagues and classmates become jealous of you. They speak negative of your name, then the surrounding starts to treat you badly. You encounter many denials and rejections. 

By experiencing that behavior from people, you start to get bitter and develop anger. The first thing that comes to your mind is everyone hates you, you doubt yourself and hate yourself that you trusted the wrong people. Insecurity and low self-esteem start to grow in your life. 

When someone is jealous of you is because you are already having something best in your life that they don't have. So for them to feel good about themselves is by destroying you and everything you have achieved. 

In life, some people can cause damage to your emotions and destroy your confidence. Psychological you become bitter, heavy, and bonded with negative life. I want to help you understand that you are not a bad person. 

People betrayed you because you were not to be in their lives. People leave you because they no longer see the reason to stay in your life. After you have been betrayed forgive yourself for trusting the wrong individuals. 

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